Letting go is the hardest part of everyone's lives. Whether it's a job, friends, or an (you guess it) relationship.
Why is it so hard to let go of the person who's doing you wrong. Giving additional stress and drama that you don't need. The person who being a total A-HOLE.
I tell you that it's because you don't want to ALONE. That was the hardest part to do was to write that word "alone".That word is a major condition no one want to be in. In my past relationship, I didn't want to let go because of the fear of being alone. While all of my sisterfriends were happy with their respected relationship, I settled for an relationship that was emotionally draining. He sucked the life out of me. I don't have a clue why I let him. I stuck it out because I didn't know any better and because I believe he would've change. Of course he didn't, he was and still is the same A-Hole today.
When I did let go, I cried for weeks because I was alone. I had support from my sisterfriends but that support wasn't enough to break the feeling of . Even though time has passed, I don't regret the time to self evaluate myself and my issues.
If anyone of you all are having trouble letting go, I say this "Life is too damn short to be unhappy".
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